Blog Relationship skills
The relationship skills nobody teaches you
Disagreeing without damage, apologizing properly, saying no, needing space, jealousy and bluntness: the unglamorous skills real relationships run on.
Love languages: why knowing yours isn't enough
The five love languages are a useful vocabulary, but they describe what you ask for, not what you do. Two questions that predict fit better than any quiz.

How to disagree with someone you love, without damage
Conflict is not the opposite of a good relationship. How to argue well: what to say, the four habits that do damage, and how to repair things afterwards.
